The number one thing you hear when entering a long distance relationship is: COMMUNICATION!!!!!! And it’s true. Without a shadow of a doubt, you need to communicate, and you need to do it often, and well. Continue reading Stepping Stones To Surviving: Talk It Out
Long distance, as stated before, is not for the faint of heart. This is a life that is complicated and filled with doubt and suspicion. Both of those feelings are one hundred percent validated to feel. But you need to … Continue reading Stepping Stones To Surviving: It’s A Trust Fall
There’s a lot that has to do with the future of the military. You have to think ahead to deployments, and to return dates. You have to think about the good and bad possible outcomes every time they leave the … Continue reading Managing The Military: Fantasizing Of The Future
I’m the first one to say it… Adam’s job sucks. The hours he keeps, the secrets he holds, and the workloads which never seem to lighten. This is true of most, if not all, military personnel. Their spouses seem to … Continue reading Managing The Military: Working Out The Kinks
Being in a long distance relationship, I get asked some weird questions regarding it. More than that, my LDR (long distance relationship) is a military relationship as well, so I get some doubly weird questions. I figured that I would answer … Continue reading Is Phone Sex As Good As The Real Thing?
[Written Oct, 2018] Long distance relationships are lonely. Even if you talk to your person every day, it gets lonely. So, because of that, you need a support system. But not just anybody- while your best friend might be some … Continue reading Setting Up Support Systems; LDR’s
Adam left for his training on Tuesday, and I still can’t quite wrap my head around the fact that I’m alone. I’ve been on my own before, and I’ve been without him before, so technically it’s not that different from … Continue reading I’m Alone… Now What?
It’s really easy to become unsure of your relationship, your other half, or yourself when in a long distance relationship. Heck, regular relationships go through the same hardships, but keeping your faith in someone half a world away in my … Continue reading Faith, Trust, and Pixie Dust
I haven’t had time to truly process what this means for me… but I’ve made it to England!!! I’ll give you guys a quick rundown on my travels to get here, but it’s not really that exciting. I was sent … Continue reading How Do I Live Like This?
There’s a lot that goes into play when getting into a long distance relationship. There’s a lot of trust to be had, feelings to be shared, and memories to be made. But something was brought to my attention a couple … Continue reading Stepping Stones To Surviving: Attraction Or Distraction?