The number one thing you hear when entering a long distance relationship is: COMMUNICATION!!!!!! And it’s true. Without a shadow of a doubt, you need to communicate, and you need to do it often, and well. Continue reading Stepping Stones To Surviving: Talk It Out
Therapy is an interesting experience, to say the least. But before we get into our first therapy session, lets talk a little more about why we went to therapy in the first place. See, I didn’t explain it very well in my … Continue reading Therapy 101; Thoughts and Feelings
Adam and I have finally hit the wall. In our relationship. In our work. In our lives. We’re both so burnt out that we’re unhappy with one another- though we still love each other very much- and our work is … Continue reading Couples Therapy
Long distance, as stated before, is not for the faint of heart. This is a life that is complicated and filled with doubt and suspicion. Both of those feelings are one hundred percent validated to feel. But you need to … Continue reading Stepping Stones To Surviving: It’s A Trust Fall
First off, this post isn’t about me- but it does concern me. Adam has recently graduated from Airman Leadership School (ALS)!! This means that he is now a Staff Sergeant and is allowed more freedom to be in charge. That’s … Continue reading Airman Leadership School (and how I survived)
I’m the first one to say it… Adam’s job sucks. The hours he keeps, the secrets he holds, and the workloads which never seem to lighten. This is true of most, if not all, military personnel. Their spouses seem to … Continue reading Managing The Military: Working Out The Kinks
Something that I’ve seen many times, though usually portrayed in movies, is the “free pass” or the “list” between couples. The “free pass” or “list” tends to refer to a spouse who is allowed, through agreed terms, to sleep with … Continue reading Free Pass?
It’s really easy to become unsure of your relationship, your other half, or yourself when in a long distance relationship. Heck, regular relationships go through the same hardships, but keeping your faith in someone half a world away in my … Continue reading Faith, Trust, and Pixie Dust
Adam and I are in the middle of a fight right now. Not surprisingly, it’s about the state of the house. The lack of clean laundry. The fact that he promised a clean house and car for when I got … Continue reading Fighting Friendly Fire
There’s a lot that goes into play when getting into a long distance relationship. There’s a lot of trust to be had, feelings to be shared, and memories to be made. But something was brought to my attention a couple … Continue reading Stepping Stones To Surviving: Attraction Or Distraction?