Is Phone Sex As Good As The Real Thing?

Being in a long distance relationship, I get asked some weird questions regarding it. More than that, my LDR (long distance relationship) is a military relationship as well, so I get some doubly weird questions. I figured that I would answer a few of those weird and odd questions right here! Hey, if you have any questions regarding an LDR, military relationships, or just me in general, head over to my Instagram, Tumblr, or Twitter to shoot me a message!

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Are you allowed to cheat?

Absolutely NOT. Just because we are in two different places at any given time, that’s no valid excuse to cheat on your partner. Maybe you have an open type of relationship, but even then, you have to talk to your partner about being able to sleep with someone else. A deployment or an LDR is not a hall pass to destroy your partner’s life. Just because you’re in two different places doesn’t mean that you’re allowed to do whatever you want.

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Is phone sex really a thing?

Yes, it is absolutely real. Now is it as good as the real thing? Some people think so, but I don’t. I’m not a sexually driven person, so I don’t get as much enjoyment out of it as some other people do. But I would always suggest trying it, at least once, to see how it feels for you and your partner.

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How do I get into an LDR?

I personally wouldn’t recommend a long distance relationship for anybody. It is the hardest and most difficult thing that I’ve ever had to do. I didn’t go looking for one when Adam and I met. He was actually planning on just using me until he left for his overseas station, and then dump me like a sack of potatoes on the side of the road. Not really, but same difference. But at my persistence, we kept at the relationship, and just learned how to deal with it. Nobody else in our life had ever been in an LDR apart from one of my friends, so this was all new territory for both of us. I suppose that if you really want to get into an LDR, find a penpal who is looking to have a relationship. There are plenty of websites for it! I just used Tinder, but I also don’t suggest that…

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Is long distance even worth it? 

YES IT IS WORTH IT! I might be just a tad biased on the situation, but I think it’s very worth it. Something in relation to this question is the validity of the relationship, but I think that as long as you both know where you stand on the subject, a long distance relationship can be just as valid as any other. I think long distance is better than an in-person relationship, just because you get to really fall in love with someone because of their mind, personality, and their heart. It may be less physical, but I believe that it’s far more intimate. It also tests the strength and integrity of your own heart when placed in a difficult situation.

 

Obviously, these are just a few of the many questions I’ve heard from long distance relationships. Maybe I’ll do a post in the near future on specific military relationships. Let me know if that’s something that you would be interested in!

 

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